Tag: live your best life

Living a Fearless Life

Let’s make life happen. How do we do that? We know deep within ourselves that we can make things happen. We conquer our fears. We do the work that is needed to make what we want to happen. Live a fearless life and live the best life.

How do we do that? 

  1. Make a list of the things that scare us. Write out EVERYTHING! Big or small. 
  2. Sort those fears into two columns. Difficult and Easy. We all have fears that are easy to overcome and fear that are so deeply rooted they take more work. 
  3. Do 2-3 of the easy fears each week until they are no longer fears. The more often you do the thing you fear the less fearful we become. 
  4. The harder fears sometimes need counseling or more personalized support as they tend to be rooted in our past. They seem to be apart of us which can cause anxiety or panic attacks. With these, we need to be more cautious and loving with ourselves. Only you can determine how overcoming the difficult fears should be done for you. 
  5. If you can handle the more difficult fears on your own. Then start doing them today. Think about what things you can do today to overcome the fear. If your fear is being on camera, do 1-minute facebook live each day for a week. Then increase the time on camera. 

Fears only stop us if we let them

Fear only holds us back from the things we deserve. I struggle with this every day. I fear being good enough. I fear that having lots of money will change who I am. I fear that if I am productive then time will pass me by. I fear that I will never find true love. I fear asking for help. 

These fears have stopped me from being the best I can be. It creates laziness in me. It creates a lack of self-worth. It does this to everyone. We have these fears that paralyze us from living our best lives. 

We can create love, faith, and a fearless life by putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations. Nothing grows without a fight. Make those little steps towards living a fearless life that I listed above. These are the ways I get past my fears. 

“Sometimes there is something so strong inside you that burns with a fire so strong, you can’t ignore it for long”

Ashley Sprinkel

This is how we live a fearless life. We let the fire burn inside us until we have no choice, but to do something about it. When we put ourselves into uncomfortable situations, we push ourselves to live a bigger life. We do the things we fear because we deserve to live the best life possible. We deserve to be in control of our own lives. If we have fears, the fears control our lives.

So get started on conquering your fears and living a fearless life. I am right there with you. Let me know what fears you want to overcome! We can overcome it together!

Achieving your Dreams with Obstacles

Everyone has dreams. Everyone has goals they want to accomplish. And for the everyday person, it’s not easy to accomplish. There are obstacles that stand in the way. Not just mental obstacles, but external obstacles. Both mental and external obstacles have a big impact on whether or not you can make your dreams happen.

Mental Obstacles

Mental obstacles are the thoughts and ideas we have about ourselves or the world around us. They are thoughts and ideas that we tell ourselves during certain situations in our past. How people treated us as children or how we preserved a certain environmental factor, all contribute to the thoughts we have about ourselves. 

They can literally stop us in your tracks. If this thought or idea is threatened, it can overcome us so severely we have a panic attack or not function. For some, these thoughts can propel them to keep pushing forward and achieve their dreams, but they aren’t happy or fulfilled. What they achieved was superficial and not what their souls needed.

These thoughts are not limited to the following.

  1. I am not good enough
  2. I am not worthy enough
  3. I can’t do it
  4. I don’t know what I am doing
  5. No one loves me
  6. No one wants me

Outward Obstacles

Outward obstacles can be from social-economic statuses or skin color or race. These can hold us back from being able to do what we are meant to do. It is difficult because life isn’t fair and we don’t all have the same resources and support. 

It is difficult to start your own business if you don’t have the financial means to do so. If you don’t have the family support to get through school, it makes it difficult to get the degree we all need to get that good job. Some people are raised in a home that wasn’t supportive in any way. This leaves them at a disadvantage because they don’t have the social or emotional skills to live a different life. Others have skin colors or races that are discriminated against. It puts them at a horrible disadvantage that can make it that much harder for them to become part of a higher purpose.

It is Possible to Overcome and Achieve

I know I struggle trying to make weidergabe.com take off the way I want it too. I don’t have the financial means to hire a coach or take a course to help me understand what I am doing. Not having a complete understanding of SEO or the team to make sure my Instagram and Facebook are written in a way that would attract people to my blog.

I won’t let this stop me. I am working and learning in all the ways I possibly can. It is not easy. And I sometimes get frustrated because there are others who grow up in a household where they can ask their parents for money to get that coach. 

At the same time, I know that if I work through my mental obstacles what I need will be provided to me through the universe. My mental obstacle is the thought that I am not good enough. My ideas around money are tainted because of situations that happened with my mother and father when I was younger. The two combined keep me stuck in the same cycle. 

I know you can’t take my word for it because I have no achieved my goals with weidergabe.com and I am not a millionaire. I do know that you can take my word that it is possible to overcome anything. 

I there will always be someone or something in your life to help you succeed if you work through the mental obstacles. It’s not easy to work through them without the money to pay for a class or a therapist. It is possible to do because everything is inside you. Keep working on yourself and being aware of what is happening around you. Let your emotions flow. Scream or cry or dance with joy to get the energy moving and flowing.

It is possible because I have made it this far. 

I have made it this far in my life. I have traveled to Africa to support locals there. This was a dream that I had since I was a kid AND it HAPPENED! I live in Costa Rica full time. And have been for two and a half years. I have conquered fears and made changes with weidergabe.com that I never would have imagined three years ago. 

It is possible. The universe will provide what you need when you need it. Just look around and seek out the answer. It is within you. 

Comment and let me know what your struggles are. I would love to hear what you are struggling with and what you’re doing about it.